Brian David Mercer

9 February 193722 April 2026

MERCER, Brian David: passed peacefully in his sleep at Elderslea Rest Home aged 89 years on 22nd April 2026. 

He was the dearly loved husband of Kaye Mercer (nee Murphy) for 61 years.  Much loved father of Kere and Andrew Bennett, Ellen and Matthew Abel, Steph and Darryl Robinson.  Loved Grandpa and Poppa of Cait and Etienne, Campbell and Belle, Oliver and Katie, Liam and Brenda, Lachlan and Genevieve, Zach and Jemma and Fin.  Treasured Great Grandpa of Micah. 

Please join us for a celebration of his life at St John's Anglican Church, cnr Moonshine Road and Fergusson Drive, Trentham, Upper Hutt on Wednesday, 29 April 2026 at 1.30pm followed by private cremation.

Messages and tributes may be left here on Brian's tribute page. 

Tributes

Brian you were truly a great guy. you always helped others when they needed help without even needing to be asked. Kaye I remember once visiting your farm that you both had. when I went to visit it with Kere and Andrew. I also remember one year we had put together a big Christmas lunch at Mum and Brian‘s place in Waikanae and we invited all the family and we all pitch in to make a great lunch and you guys stayed at your Batch that was nearby. It’s times like this that you really realise exactly how far away you are from your family and how i wish I was close by but that does not mean that I won’t be thinking of you all tomorrow because I will be praying that God gives you the strength to get through tomorrow. Kere and Andrew and the rest of the family I know you will do him proud tomorrow just like you all have through your lives. Just remember his memory lives on and he’s in your hearts.

Kate

Brian you were truly a great guy. you always helped others when they needed help without even needing to be asked. Kaye I remember once visiting your farm that you both had. when I went to visit it with Kere and Andrew. I also remember one year we had put together a big Christmas lunch at Mum and Brian‘s place in Waikanae and we invited all the family and we all pitch in to make a great lunch and you guys stayed at your Batch that was nearby. It’s times like this that you really realise exactly how far away you are from your family and how i wish I was close by but that does not mean that I won’t be thinking of you all tomorrow because I will be praying that God gives you the strength to get through tomorrow. Kere and Andrew and the rest of the family I know you will do him proud tomorrow just like you all have through your lives. Just remember his memory lives on and he’s in your hearts.

Kate

Dear Kaye & family,So Sorry to hear of Brians passing.Remenber well the time we lived next to you in Keats Cres,Nelsonin the 1970s. Those were great days with BBQs in centre of the cul de sac.and the kids all little having fun together. deepest sympathy, Jenny & Jim Hewes, Havelock North

Jenny/Jim Hewes

Brian and my dad Austin Silbery were great work colleagues (Dulux) and friends. Their relationship lasted until my dad’s passing 2018. Our condolences to Kaye and families. Brian was a great man who will be sorely missed. Sending big hugs Love Angela & Bill Fox

Angela Silbery-Fox

Brian you were a lovely man, very funny and new lots of sayings. Stanley, Brodie and Chucky are going to miss you and so will Johanna and me. Rest in peace Brian

Sharon and Stanley
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