Thinking of you all as you farewell Ross. Love and strength during this hard time xx

Ruth and family I was very sorry to read of Ross’s passing. In 1972 at 69 Dundas St,Dunedin I was privileged to be one of Ross’s flat mates. Those student days were great days. Much love to you and family. John Clearwater Takapuna

Dear Ruth and Families We have been lucky enough to have Ross and Ruth in our lives over the last few years We will remember Ross's cheeky grin and quick wit . His eyes that had so much love for his family.He was a true gentleman and a kiwi bloke through and through.For us its only been a short period of time but Ross you certainly have indented a place in our hearts forever and for all that we're lucky enough to know you. I hope the memories help to heal the sadness of loosing the ability to be in your presence . It's been a honor rest easy Ross

Dear Ruth and family. Our sincere condolences at this time. I'll always remember Ross as having such a dry quick wit, and that I was too young and stupid enough to undertand with my time at Merino Downs. Love Kev and Kirstie.

Ruth, Geoff, Vikki, Kirsten and Ella, Warrick and Bronnie, Deb, Emily and Grayson It is so very hard to put into words what we want to say to you all and to understand the feeling of emptiness that is in your hearts at the moment. I am not going to repeat all the words that describe Ross that other people have conveyed to you. We all know those words. I want to speak about our friendship and what it means to us, Ted, myself, Nick and especially Johanna. First of all, their wedding, the fun time we had all day. Moving into their first home And then the next move. Man !!! how devoted Ross must have been to Ruth when they moved to Merino Downs to take on the family farm and have a task master like Dad. There must have been many times he regretted that decision. (I know what it was like to get on the wrong side of Dad) but listen and learn he did. I’m not one to remember or retell jokes but when I did tell one to Ross within seconds, he would reply with a better one. We have shared wonderful experiences with Ruth and Ross. All our visits to NZ, their visits to Portland and Melbourne. Fiji Plantation Island (even when you had to make an extra trip back to Nadi to pick up your passports that were left behind at the hotel. We didn’t trust Ross when he had the camera in his hand. No need for more details about that. The Quarter finals at the Aussie Open, two full days through to the early hours of the morning. We were all in the shade day one. Mum and I were in the shade day two, Ruth and Ross got very hot. Ross found this small café that made yummy waffles so every morning we had waffles for breakfast while we were in Melbourne. The Houseboat holiday on the Murray River, great and some not-so-great memories. Ruth I’m sure you’re nodding your head at this time. Ted and Ross tying up the boat on the riverbank, I’m holding the wheel, Ted is tying one rope and Ross is sliding down the bank towards the river. Back in Melbourne having lunch at the Hilton celebrating a birthday. Riverton is a special place for us all and we had great times there together. Ross was always intent on making improvements to the crib for all the family to enjoy. Ross always had this happy knack of making everyone he came in contact with laugh, smile and be happy. I’m sure that every person who has assisted in some way in the caring of Ross health wise will have stories to tell and remember him as a wonderful and caring patient and person, as we all do. Ev and Ted, Nick Maddi Harriet and Tabitha, Johanna Edward and Charlie

Thoughts and prayers to Ruth and family

Dear Ruth and Family With sadness I heard of Ross’s passing and send my condolences at this time of reflection. During my high school years, I was lucky enough to live with Ross and Ruth in Gore. I fondly remember Ross regularly had delicious meals prepared for dinner and he was always up for a yarn after school. I also recall the days coming home from school to find him out in the garden, or occasionally up the ladder on the roof even though at that time it probably wasn’t the safest thing, but that was Ross – always determined to do things himself and maintain the house and garden with perfection. Sending much love to Ruth, Deb and the family. I’m so lucky to have known Ross and send my best wishes and love to you all. May the heavens watch over you Ross <3 - Hunter Calder, The Netherlands

My Deepest Sympathy To Ruth and All Ross's Loving Family and Friends.

Thinking of you all as you farewell Ross. He certainly was a character with his jokes and little funny gifts. Margaret Macgregor

A man who has lived well, laughed often and loved much is a man who has succeeded in life. Uncle Ross always saw the best in others and gave the best he had. I’ll always remember the special moments, jokes and most importantly the time he shared with us fondly. Sending my love to you all xxx

There’s not many of my New Zealand memories that don’t involve Ross, whether it be helping him on the farm, smuggling pockets full of smarties out of restaurants together, holidays at the Crib or in later years, sharing jokes over a few whiskeys. He truly was one of a kind in the best possible way. Sending my love to you all, Johanna xx

To the Low family So sorry for your loss. I only know you through Warrick, but so sorry to hear of your loss, especially at such a family time. If Ross was anything like Warrick, his humour, charm, empathy and understanding will be greatly missed. Thinking of you Warrick and thoughts to your family, especially of course mum. Mark

To Ruth and family. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. Take care. Janine

So many great memories of Uncle Ross, particularly during the summer holidays at Riverton as kids. He will be missed x

We never have the words to explain loss, we have all felt it, but in times when others need comfort we struggle to find the sentiments. Ross is my role model for how to be an Uncle. The perfect combination of clever and dark, mischievous and calm, and I am truly fortunate to have had Uncle Ross in my life. Thinking of you, Deb, Warrick and Geoff.

Condolences to you & family Ruth - thinking of you all with Love💖

Ruth and Family we send all our love to you all at this sad time our thoughts are with you

My condolences to you and your family Ruth.