Thomas Gower

10 July 193724 May 2022

Passed away suddenly on Tuesday 24th May 2022, aged 84.

Cherished husband of Margaret.

Much loved father of Gary and Noriko, Jacqui, Craig and Max.

Proud grandfather of Tom, Oliver, Chelsea, Josh, Vanessa and Ashley.

Gone but not forgotten.

Funeral service held at Dil's Funeral Services

Tributes

Remembering all the Happy times we have shared over the years in New Zealand and the UK. Bob will miss his chats with you about Pompey. Forever in our thoughts Bob, Margaret and family.x

Bob and Margaret

My Dear Father you will be missed by so many people, you touched so many hearts. You sense of humour was the best, I remember so many times you, Vanessa and I laughing that much we were all just about crying. Today is about celebrating your life and remembering all our good times and all your many achievements. My you Rest In Peace always with your Twin Brother Frank and your family. Thanks for being the best father that I could have ever wished for xxx Love you alway Gary, Noriko, Ashley, Vanessa, Grace

Gary Gower

Our Dear ‘Uncle’ Tom. Despite the distance between us you were very much loved just as we did Grandad Frank. Now reunited, we trust you will rest in peace together (causing havoc of course). God Bless! Our thoughts are with you all in NZ. All our Love xxxx

Sean Gower

My dear ‘uncle’ Tom. May you rest in paradise with your twin brother and my wonderful grandad Frank. Thank you for the memories I’ll never forget dancing away in the kitchen with you. Give grandad a big kiss for me, take care of each other. Sending so much love to the NZ family, may you find comfort in each other at such a difficult time. All our love ❤️

Ellisha Gower

In loving memory of dear uncle Tom. Remembering all the happy memories of times past. At peace now. No more pain or suffering. Our sincere condolences and love. From brother George, Gloria, Maureen, Margaret , Eileen, Bob and Tim. Also Terry Matthew and Marcus xx

Maureen Saunders

In loving memory of Uncle Tom , may you rest in eternal peace . Reunited with your brothers .. give them all a hug from us xx

Sallyanne , Mark and Kevin Gower

Loving memories our dear Uncle Tom and the laughs we shared when you came to visit. Now reunited with our Dad/Grandad, your twin, and your 4 other brothers, Rest in Peace.

Julie Ady CJ and Jordan Beer

Uncle Tom although you wer many miles away we always new if we ever needed you you wer there being the next best thing to our dad (FRANK) your twin . I have many fond memories of your visits and the laughs we had. Just like dad you will always be in my heart god bless you Uncle Tom PS give dad a hug from me. God speed to we meet again Your nephew Lee (twin) xxx

Lee GOWER ( twin)

To our dearest Uncle Tom (twin to our dad frank ) Although you lived far away I have treasured memories of your visits to England and meeting up with you at our dads (your twin brother) we always had a laugh and joke with you when we were all together your bond with our dad was very strong now sadly we lost you now reunited with your twin brother and mum and your other brothers God speed to you Uncle Tom love Twin mark and Julie xxxx Portsmouth uk

Mark Gower (twin)
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