Rest In Peace, Uncle Brian I'm glad I had the brief moment to speak to you, not too long ago. It felt good to have that chance to tell you how you impressed a bunch of us, local boys with your knowledge and passion of sound and music. You inspired me with more than that, though and your calm attitude as a father was a template I used to be a father to my children here. May you rest in eternal peace and may all you leave behind always have strong memories of your wonderful qualities as a father and friend.

About Brian He said: Let the beloved of the Lord rest secure in Him, for He shields him all day long, and the one the Lord loves rests between His shoulders. Deut.33.12

By far one of the most beautiful services I witnessed as Brian's family and friends said their fond goodbyes yesterday. Every eulogy and every tear cried came from deep within hearts Brian has touched with his life. Brian had the gift of making every person he interacted with very special. He gave his single-minded focus to what was currently set before him as an opportunity to be an encourager; be it a conversation you were having with him after our Lamb of God meetings, a text you sent him, a prayer request. Thanks Brian for always pointing me to the love of the Lord and His larger purposes which you truly exemplified in your suffering. I'll continue to remember you as I recite my Surrender Novena which has blessed me immensely. As Patrick rightly summed it up...we've lost a friend but have gained a guardian angel. RIP dear friend. Yvonne

Dearest A. Joan, Bee, Tanya and families, we are with you in spirit as you mourn the loss of Uncle Brian. Uncle had a beautiful presence about him – I remember him as intelligent, gentle, centred - he always had a kind and encouraging word when I visited your home in I.C. Colony. I remember how invested he was in serving at our local church and my parents had a great respect and fondness for him. Uncle kept in touch over the years and I really appreciated his faith in the Lord, his thoughtfulness and wisdom. Uncle Brian was a wonderful soul, a lovely neighbour, and will be missed by me and my family.

Dear Joan, Tanya, Bian and family, we are deeply saddened for your loss. We have fond memories of your Dad as we were next door neighbors in Bandra. Brian was devoted to his family. He always had a smile and very soft spoken person. He worked hard and was humble just like St Joseph. He kept in touch via social media sending out wishes and prayers from afar. May God grant him eternal peace.

Dear Brian, I will always remember you for the quiet, stoic man with a beautiful smile. I will never forget the days we, Candice and myself waited to come to your home to spend time with your beautiful family. I will always remember the love you had for Joan, Tanya and Bian, When we were there we felt part of your family. You were kind and affectionate to us. You were exceptionally good at whatever you did. They say at certain stages of our lives we meet different people who touch our lives and I am so glad to have crossed paths with yours. Rest in peace Brian. Kevin, Christopher, Sheridan, Dennis, Nikita and myself send our deepest condolences to you Joan, Tanya, Bian and your families at this difficult time. You will be in our hearts and in our prayers. With love Michelle.

Dearest Brian, my eldest cousin, you will be missed dearly, your pain is over and with Jesus now. I was very happy my family got to meet you ,joanne, Tanya and family for the first time when our cruise ship came to Auckland in 2018, it was a Sunday and we were keen on hearing mass and you made that happen without any hassle and then followed by that awesome picnic, where we spent lot of quality time with you and the family ., they still remember you fondly. We are all so blessed to have you in our lives, and now we have someone in Heaven interceding for all of us Farewell to a beautiful soul our dear Brian Andrea, Paul and family

Farewell beloved cousin, farewell. I cannot forget your soft infectious laugh, your kind, caring and gentle nature. I remember the good times I spent with you, Joan and kids at your home in Bombay, whenever my ship was in port. When I was going through my battle with illness 11 years ago your call and encouraging talk with the love of Jesus and I still have the prayers you sent me.. Despite your struggles in the last days of your life you still found time to message back. You will be missed by all, but the Lord wanted to take you to His Home. Rest in Peace beloved cousin, forever Rest in Peace of our Lord. Amen. Anton, Christine and family.

Our dear Joan, Tanya, Bian and families: Kindly accept our most sincere condolences. At this very sad time of grief and sorrow we can't find the right words to express our thoughts and feelings. Brian was a good friend during the time we knew him in the Lamb of God Community- a brother who was helpful, kind, prayerful and what stood out most about him was his unfailing trust and faith in God. He taught us the prayer of Surrender. He suffered much but he was always calm and willing to talk on the phone during those last months when his pain and suffering had increased. He said one of his treasures were the friends he had made along the way. We shall miss Brian and share in your grief. We are glad his earthly sufferings are over and now he is with His Lord whom He loved so much!!! Our prayers are with you all. Blessings from both of us. Rest in peace dear Brian.

Brian, it is very difficult for me to sit here and put my feelings into words . We know that you will be missed by so many people. The greatest memory I have of you is walking me down the aisle on our wedding day; 50 years ago. I was so nervous and scared, but having you by my side was so reassuring. Thank you for all your love, caring and the good times we’ve had together, we will always cherish these memories. I will definitely miss our long conversations and words of wisdom…Rest In Peace dear Brian! Jack, Marlene, Asha, Tom, Emma,Jack, Marley, Shannon, Brian, Archer, Beckham and Elili

Brian I'd like to thank of the happy times we had on the estate. You Brian and my beloved Lew sharing a joke on the sweets you gave eaten. You both kept us in splits of laughter, I still remember that incident. Your Uncle Lew and I spent happy times with you and Joan in Bombay. You made us very comfortable at the lovely weddings of both Tanya and Bian. We enjoyed the functions and our stay. You had your moments of sadness but never a murmur or hint of pain in your correspondence with me. At one point of time, I thought you recovered since you kept sending feast day greetings and wishes on our birthdays. But then came news that you were very low. In spite of it all, you never failed to correspond and prayed for ajith who met with an accident. You ere brave to the end, a true soldier of Christ! Rest in peace dear Brian in the arms of the Lord.

Dear Brian, Cousin, I looked up to you with respect and affection. Despite your battle with illness you never gave up hope – a ‘BRAVE-HEART’. We reminisce the happy times shared when Aunt Phyllis & all her children joined us in Vypeen to celebrate our Silver Wedding on Dec. 29th 2011. I will cherish those memories. Rest in Peace Brian. Heartfelt Sympathy & Condolences to Joan, Tanya, Bian & families Cousins – Keith, Marlene, Neil, Ivor, Geraldine & Brenda. With Love & Prayers, Marita, Dexter & Dustin.

Dear Brian, Our eldest cousin, A beautiful person with a heart of gold and a man of few words. Thanks for keeping in touch with us. We will treasure every moment you spent with us on our trip to Busselton. You were one of the most courageous person we knew who fought till the very end. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. Joan, Tanya, Joe, Bian, James, Kaitlyn, Ethan, Nathan and Luke our heartfelt condolences to you all. May God give you all the strength to go through this sad time. Wayne, Anna & Natalie Perth, Australia.

Dear Brian, I honour you for always being so prayerful, thankful and cheerful in spite of all your sufferings. You leave behind rich memories and a challenging legacy to all of us who know you as a strong and faithful Christian, humble and submissive to God's will. Your sufferings over, you undoubtedly now earn your place in the presence of our loving Lord. Rest in peace brother Brian. You will be remembered. Your sister in Christ from the Lamb of God Community

Uncle Brian has been a beacon of light and a role model for my sons to look up to. His gentle ways and care for us and our families, the encouragement and appreciation he had for simple goodness in everyday lives reminded us of Gods loving kindness. Much admired and honored. Annie n the boys, Jason n Joshua.

My Cousin Brian was a man of few words. A quiet unassuming man, but the quiet exterior hid a wealth of knowledge. What I admired most was Brian's unshakable faith and trust in The Lord. Wheneve my ship called Mumbai I visited Brian and Joan at Silverine Apartments in Borivili. They always made me feel so welcome and showered me with love and affection. I always enjoyed these visits. As we say in The Merchant Navy it was "A Home Away From Home" Brian moved to Newzeland and we kept in touch via social media. Being the oldest cousin in the LOBO family he was a big brother to me. Any time I had a problem, Brian was always ready to listen and give me valuable advice on how best to deal with my problem. I can still hear his voice over the phone, telling me .. "Leave everything to Jesus and He will take care of the situation". Such sound and uplifting advice. When Brian fell sick, and all through the 2 years of his battle with cancer he always remained so positive and I admired the courage with which he fought the disease. Towards the end, realizing Brian was in so much pain I, did not know how to pray for him. Then it dawned on me as to what Brian would have wanted. " Leave everything to Jesus" and that is exactly what I did. I surrendered Brian to Jesus and I now believe that Jesus has Brian enfolded in His arms and is taking care of him. Brian will be greatly missed by Faylene and myself. His frequent messages and greetings on every special occasion. The last was on the 15th of January 2023 to wish us for our Ruby Wedding Anniversary. We knew he was in much pain but he took the time to wish us and tell us that he was so happy we were celebrating our 40th with a retreat at The Divine Retreat Centre. This was just the man Brian was. We believe that some day, somewhere we will meet again " Beyond The Sunset". Those who die, dont just go away... They walk besides us every day.

Big brother you have set some high standards for us... * Your all-inclusive thoughtfulness and availability despite what you were going through * Your quiet graceful endurance * Your total abandonment to God's Will. * Your tireless pursuit of the truth and light. We will strive to live up to these (with a little help from you). Your talents and capabilities are way beyond ours yet you weren't boastful or haughty. Rest in peace our beloved brother Brian and be assured of the profound love we will always hold in our hearts for you Keith & Pat Neil & Marie Marlene & Jack Ivor & Patsy Geral & Bobby Brenda & Dean

Tribute to Dad. Who will be my guide through the wilderness? Who will my light in the dark? Who will smile a knowing smile at my corny joke? Or share and re share in my stories of old? Who will speak softly into the noise in my head? Who will believe for me, in me and with me when all hope has been shed? Who will walk behind me so there’s a always catch in my fall? Who will stay up by the phone when I need to call? And where will I go for calm in the storm? And where will I hide when they choose to come? You were the scaffolding the supported my weak fragile being. The glue that held us together at all cost. The direction we needed when we were lost. The one I looked up to with respect and love. The one I always felt I never had enough of. The void you leave behind is deep, black, bare and bereft. There is no release, no relief, no respite from this spiritual pain. And yet, I know what you would say. I must move, again, forward, in him and with him. Because his purpose was yours and should be mine. What you gave to me, I must continue to give. I must lead and not be led. For in our God, you are me and I am you. So, I take strength in the words, not heard but whispered in my ear. I will feel the warmth of your love in the sunshine on my face. I will find peace in the lush green hills and chirping of the birds. I will rest by the water and hear your voice in the waves of the ocean. I will cherish love by giving love. I will be the continuation of the legacy you leave. I will be you. You will be me. Thank you, Daddy. Rest in peace.

Brian, our dearest cousin, you always held a special place in our hearts. Although we couldn't spend much time together when young, you never missed an opportunity to get back in touch again! The great link being Dad Percy, one of the six LOBO brothers...your Uncle and Godfather, with whom you had a very close bond and treasured many happy memories. To mention a few that you shared with us Brian, was the joy and pride you had as a little boy, to sit between your Godfather and his bride on the bridal seat at their wedding reception! Lucky godson! Another treasured memory was the unique tie knot Dad tied for you on Ivor's wedding day, which you treasured ever since. You were such a thoughtful godson too Brian, who always wished Dad/ your godfather and prayed for him on his birthday. Brian I always admired the endurance, courage, faith and trust in the Lord which you had during your recent illness... now in your heavenly home, resting peacefully in the loving arms of Jesus. Our heartfelt condolences to you dearest Joan, Tanya, Joe, Bian, James and all Brian's siblings... Keith, Marlene, Neil, Gerry, Ivor and Brenda. May God's immense grace and blessings be with all of you during this time of grief and always. Love and prayers Herm, Brian and family

Dear Joan, Tanya, Bian and families. Our sincere and heartfelt condolences on the loss of dear Brian. May you be blessed with peace and comfort that he rests safe in the arms of Jesus. Much love and our prayers for you at this sad time.

My dear uncle Brian, I will miss you so very much. I have wonderful childhood memories of spending days with you and Aunty joanie in Borivali. Climbing onto your back and playing “horsie”, making you solve my Rubik’s cube and fixing anything I’d managed to break. I will miss the most kind, interesting, wise and yet the easiest person to have a conversation with on any subject. I’ll miss talking to you about your favourite topic- technology and asking for your advice on the latest gadget I wanted, even though I knew almost nothing about it. You always took an interest in what I was doing whether it was my study, work or my hobbies. Whilst it’s surreal and heartbreaking to know that you’re no longer here, I am so grateful to have had you in my life and to learn so much just by watching your quiet, gracious and gentle manner. You made everyone you spoke to feel special and valued and I feel blessed to have known you. I will forever remember you as my warm, sweet, kind uncle Brian. Kris

I've known Brian ever since I married into the family 37 years ago. He simply loved children and had a marvelous way with entertaining and teaching them new things My children enjoyed spending time at their place in Borivali and looked up to him as a wonderful uncle, who also played a role of a grandfather. I am grateful for the wonderful times we've shared through the years, creating memories, and we look back on with fondness. He was good with fixing things and went the extra mile to help people. From my personal experience with Brian, I have always considered him to be helpful, kind, and level-headed in his ways. Brian had a high pain threshhold, surrendering it all to Jesus. Our greatest joy is in knowing that Jesus has welcomed him with open arms into His holy presence. Our families will miss him immensely. Our sincere prayers are for Joan, Tanya & Joe, Kaitlyn, Nathan, Bian & James, Ethan & Luke. That the peace that surpasses all understanding would flood their hearts and homes as they journey through this difficult time of grieving. We pray that the joy of the Lord would be their strength, for the comfort of the Holy Spirit, as our sweet Jesus, wraps His arms around them, guiding them, with courage & wisdom, moving forward. With love to the family June D'Silva

Dear Grandpa, I am so grateful to have had such a loving, caring, generous, faithful man of God as my own grandfather. I have so many wonderful memories of you. I've thanked God so many times that you and grandma came to live in New Zealand, and that I got to have you so present in my life. Even though you'd been suffering for so long, I never actually thought I'd have to say goodbye to you. You had so much hope that you would be healed, and honestly I did to, so it came as a bit of a shock to see that you had passed away. As painful as this time is for us that are left behind, I'm just trying to be happy that you are now at peace in heaven, and much happier. Your endurance and strength through these past 2 years has been so incredible it's only increased the respect that we all have for you. A few weeks ago, I dreamed that I saw you again, fully healed with a huge smile on your face. At the time I'd thought that it was God telling me he would heal you while you were still here, but now I know it was a vision of your joy in heaven. Grandpa, I will always miss you and I will always wish that you had more time with us, because 80 years seems too young to me, but I will treasure the time we did have for the rest of my life. You were everything we needed, the perfect grandfather to all your grandchildren. I love you so much, and I know that I now have someone waiting for me in heaven.

Dear Grandpa, I still remember the conversations we use to have a few years ago now back in New Zealand. You were always knowledgeable and full of interesting information. When first meeting you I remember being very anxious due to my uncertainty to what you would be like. However, you welcomed me and Luke with a warm smile, making us all feel very comfortable with your compassion. You were one of the most selfless and humble men I had ever met. Everything you did was for your family, which I have always heavily respected. You never expected anything in return for your kind actions; and you always handled situations with a calm and collected manner and a cool temperament. You will always live on in my heart Grandpa, and I will never stop thinking about the moments we have shared together. Your spirit will never perish; and I know now that you will be watching over us in heaven. You have accomplished so much in your life, and I am so proud to have had you as my Grandfather. I love you Grandpa. Rest in Peace. Ethan.

Dearest Dad How we will miss you so. I remember how you adopted me into the Lobo family so warmly when I started dating Bian. How supportive and loving you and mum were to us when we got married. You were always there to say a calming word and look after your daughters best interest as we embarked on the journey of married life. When we had children - the sheer excitement and unconditional love you have given to both my sons when you saw them being born and as they were growing up. Patient, kind, understanding and quietly in the background encouraging them every step of the way. How devoted your daughters have been to you in sickness and in health. They are a huge credit to both of you. Wonderful human beings who are a reflection of both of their parents. You suffered a lot towards the end but you always bore it with dignity and Grace. Your faith never faltered. You were much loved by everyone and are now much missed. Look over us now with gentle calm eyes and continue to encourage us in our lives. Love James.

Hi Brian No one can take your place, you served as an obedient and well appreciated individual. Your smile in pain and happiness is and will always be the same on everyone's mind no sooner they think of you. You will never be forgotten by those who knew you. We will always cherish the good moments we had together in Mumbai and here too. Rest in God's kingdom, He too was longing for you and He has you now, please show our Lord your wonderful skills you learnt on earth, not forgetting our I.C Church where the priest could not do without you and at Bakeworks here too the equipment has your endorsement. Rest in Peace and please ask the heavenly father to bless us, for sure He will listen to you Lorna, Ancyl, Sasha, Iyron and Bede

Hi uncle, While this is tough to write, and the circumstances unfortunate, thinking of what to write brought up so many fond memories for me! These started with seeing pictures as a kid in Coonoor of yourself & the girls with Kerwin & I (I unfortunately was too young to remember those moments)...but remember the pictures vividly! I do however remember when we visited you'll in Bombay when I was 8....the good (highlight was the amazing head massages you gave) & the not so good (you not letting your 8 YO nephew go to the pub with U Glenn)! We laughed about some of these memories many years later in NZ...I was in my 30's at this stage...and A Joan & yourself always went out of your way to make me feel at home...faithfully putting on a delicious home cooked meal every time I visited. I was also lucky enough to have visited Kerala for Maria & Dexters 25th wedding anniversary and spend some time with the entire Lobo family there (I uploaded a picture from the backwater boat ride we took on that trip), and its a memory i'll treasure forever! More recently, even though you never met Shalini & Jordy, you always made the effort to reach out and get in touch & connect with them on birthdays and special occasions. You will be sorely missed, and the times & memories I (together with all your loving family have) will be forever cherished! Love, Vernon

Uncle Brian was an amazing man, someone who could relate to anyone. He was helpful and kind to all and also had a great sense of humour. Loved by all, he will be missed by everyone who knew him. Thanks uncle Brian for being a part of our lives. We will miss you. Fly with the angels. RIP.

Brian, you were a true friend - one in a million! Greatly cherish the times spent together. Rest in peace Jack. Your friend, Erwin

To my dearest uncle Brian, I have spent hours pondering what I should say and how to express how I’m feeling. Instead of indulging in my personal grief and sadness of not having you here on earth, I’m going to instead be glad to know that heaven has gained a beautiful soul. Someone who is loving, kind, generous, wise and above all, a man who lived a righteous, humble and full life. Thank you for being the best godfather to me. For your wise advice, genuine concern and unconditional love. Thank you for giving me such wonderful childhood memories. I remember I would come over and while all the adults were having their boring adult conversations - of absolutely no interest to children - you me, sometimes Kristen and the neighbour girl would all play the crocodile game! You’d chase us about and pretend to be a crocodile and it was the most fun game! We would be laughing and screaming and being general pests but you so enjoyed being the fun uncle and making sure we were all having a great time. I would climb all over you from your knees to your shoulders, as little as I was - knocking your glasses off your face and pulling your hair. Gosh you had your hands full, but you enjoyed these moments. You had the smiliest smile I’ve ever seen. In fact I told you that when I was a little girl and of course you beamed that bright smile when you heard me say it. So from now on, whenever I think of you, I will remember that smile and hope to see it again. Thank you uncle Brian for being the best, most loving godfather. Love, Keshia

Dearest A.Joan ,Tanya, Bian,your families & U.Brian's siblings too.Our deepest condolences to all . May God give you the strength to cope with your loss. I remember Uncle to be calm & a soft spoken person .I moved to boarding school so i did not meet you as often.Am glad we crossed paths.You were amazing on earth. Rip U Brian.

My Dear True Friend Brian, Rest in Peace with Our Loving Creator , till we meet again. Your Sincere friend, Desmond Hogg

Dear Joan Tanya Bian and families Please accept our deepest condolences. May the Holy Spirit comfort you all during this time of grief. We look back and remember those Hill Grange days. Brian was always very quiet, soft spoken, well read and very good at his work. Once you’ll moved to Borivali, we still connected as you’ll lived opp A Eiize’s home. We thank God that Brian knew the Lord Jesus as his saviour and Lord and we have that assurance that in the sweet by and by we will meet on that beautiful shore.

My dearest U. Brian, I still remember the letter you sent me when I was a little girl. I was so excited to get a letter from India. I remember it was written on pink heart shaped paper. It meant so much to me and I still have it. We may not have seen each other too many times over the course of my life but I always felt your love and support from a distance, and felt comforted but your gentle and dependable nature. Your courage, strength and dignity over the last few years, and especially months, leaves me in awe. May you rest in peace. Love Andrea

I have known Brian for the best part of 62 years since he first came to Bombay in 1961 . I was only 11 ! Brian joined the family when he married my sister Joan in 1970. Ever since he has been a brother to me. We've had so many happy and memorable times as family, especially when I remember the children growing up and the Christmas ' we all celebrated together all these years. Brian has been a devoted and loyal husband and father. A very righteous family man, and I shall always look up to him and remember him fondly. I believe he has left a tremendous impact and legacy to his children and grandchildren. A godly man who kept his faith in the Lord to the very end. He left this earthly abode to the loving arms of our Heavenly Father after enduring his long suffering patiently . Rest in peace dear brother. Well done good and faithful servant. God bless you abundantly. Lionel D'Silva.

I really can’t remember the time we last met Brian although I was born in Bombay .Our dads Hubert and Percy uncles Donald,Vinnie and Albert were legends and you Brian the most senior offspring of the Lobos . I have immense respect and admiration for the way you connected with me on social media from New Zealand to Australia.Loved sharing good news and memories with you.May our Loving Jesus cradle you in His eternal embrace.Love and prayers Charmaine,Philip and girls Karina Colleen and Tim.

Brian arrived in Bombay from Cochin a youth, to stay with his Uncle Alfie and Aunt Jessie who introduced him to all our family. He fell in naturally with all the teens (and we were all teenagers then). It was my sister, Joan who caught his eye all those years ago and the rest is history. We've all shared some wonderful memories and some pretty awful times but the good Lord brought us all through it. Brian's personality has always been gentle and soft spoken. With the years he developed remarkable wisdom and I would put that down to his search for God in his life. In our later years I shared a bind with Brian and his love for the history and traditions of our Catholic faith. I will miss very much those conversations with him. Brian you suffered with dignity and bore your cross with faith. God grant you the eternal rest you so deserve. Much live, Mellie