I first met Terry when he and Karlene returned to Australia to be married. I was 15, doing exams and the rain was torrential. Terry had a flashy (to me) waterproof raincoat and he lent it to me to wear. I felt so “cool” and “ sharp”. That was Terry. He was generous, kind, engaging, interested in you and for a 15 year old kid THAT was exceptional. Throughout his life Terry treated everyone the same.His kindness, adventurousness, joy of life, his ability to make you feel important has left an indelible mark not only on me but everyone who knew him. Vale Terry

An amazing man has left us, so many memories, so much fun was had. It is hard to imagine I will never see that happy smiling face again. Much love to Karlene Nicole, Kirsten and Todd. Gone but never forgotten. Rest well my friend. Waveney Porter 🌻

On behalf of the Fisher family here in Australia - Nev and Gloria Fisher - we send our sincere condolences to the family. Our thoughts are with you from across the ditch. KIndest and sincerest regards The Fishers Nev , Gloria, Christine, Adam and Matthew and extended family

My sincere condolences Kirsten 😔 so so so sad to hear the news. Your dad was such a cool man. I loved how he finished his corporate Telecom world and then set up in Highbury as a maker of awesome chairs amongst other things... and taught your brother the craft. He's been brave! You all have! Other memories I have... The funky house design and coloring of Zion Hill Rd. The always cozy snug and the retreat which were so unique and perfect for friends staying over or video afternoons... The fun and modern kitchen tap that could reach out the window to squrt people coming up the drive! And the humor 🤣 homeliness and 1980s parenting that was a breath of fresh air for me. Arohanui x

With sorrow we offer our sincere condolences to Karlene, Nicole, Kirsten and Todd. We are sure that Terrys life was fulfilled and enriched with the love and support of such a caring and close family We will miss him very much. He was a wonderful listener and had understanding and values in life that were evident. We loved our times away with our reunions and this time is even more precious now. R.I.P. Our thoughts and love are with you at this time. Garry and Jan Taylor

Our love and prayers are with Karlene, Nicole, Todd and Kirstin. We loved our times with Terry and Karlene A very lovely man with an amazing attitude always! He will be sorely missed by so many. We had fun times at our reunions.

Travel well old friend, things will not be the same without you. We shall so much miss your friendship, kindness and wit, a true mate indeed, sadly gone. Our thoughts and love go out to Karlene and family for their huge loss. Phil & Heather

Very sorry to hear of Terry's passing, I will always remember his laugh and good nature, he always had time for a chat. Great guy.

A great family friend we will always appreciate the support from both Terry and Karlene after Bryan passed away and happier memories of our lunches out celebrating Terry's birthdays Terry you will always be in our hearts as being one of the most caring genuine and positive person that we have been privileged to have known. Fond farewell Terry until we meet again You are in our thoughts Karlene Nicole Kirstin and Todd and we are here for you

We were brothers but always found it hard to spend time together as our families lived in Auckland, Invercargill, Whanganui, Napier and Waikato and back in those days we didn't or couldn't travel as much as we do now, Dad only bought our 1st. car in the early 50's but we had many Xmas holidays in Napier where Terry in his younger years seemed to follow me everywhere. Then we grew up and got jobs which separated us even more, but at least it stopped Terry from following me. Having said that, I always enjoyed the times we had together and our conversations which were wide and varied. One good thing about getting older was that it was easier to stay in contact by phone and Terry worked for the phone company. Except once a year it had a bad effect on Terry's memory because he was almost always late with birthday wishes. So many memories. ONE stands out, we were in Napier when Terry would have been about 8 and I had been down town and bought a 12inch record that I had wanted for a while and when I got back to the house Terry came out to meet me and wanted to look at the record, which he promptly dropped on the ground where it broke. We never forgot about that an used to joke about it most times when we got together. The last time was when I was able to get up to Snells Beach in February for a couple of days to say goodbye and we laughed about it then. I will miss him, he was a good guy and put up one hell of a fight, and he did good deeds. We will all miss him, but wont forget him, ever !

For my Brother, TERRY Miss Me – But Let Me Go When I come to the end of the road And the sun has set for me I want no rites in a gloom filled room Why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little – but not too long And not with your head bowed low Remember the love that once we shared Miss me but let me go. For this is a journey we all must take And each must go alone It’s all part of the Master’s plan, A step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart Go to the friends we know And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds Miss me – but let me go. Author Unknown

Terry was a great inspiration for me His love of the ocean His ability with design and engineering Many times his good advice I shall remember him as a corner stone of my life My love to Karlene ,Todd, Kirsten and Nicole. He will forever be in our harts Richard

So sorry to hear of Terry's passing. Terry had given me the opportunity to change my pathway through Telecom and we shared so many happy memories at Victoria Street Line Depot and Sale Street Depot. Our deepest sympathy and condolences to Karlene, Kirstin, Nicole and Todd. You will be sadly missed by us all Terry. Garth and Annette Kahi

Thanks for your heart-felt presence Terry. I was only the City Works Order Controller in the late 70's. You always remained positive and pragmatic in your role as my Overseer. We will miss you at our P&T Lunch Catch-ups.

As we all age we enjoy all the great memories of the times of our lives shared with special life long friends. We treasure those times we shared with you buddy. Ka kite e hoa ma Ka kite a noa Haera ra Aroha nui Wayne & Gay

Dear Oh Dear Oh Dear, The news i did not want to hear. Terry's passing will leave a huge void in my life. The times we enjoyed together while working for the Post Office in wellington in the 70's will never fade Terry was a true gentleman whose dress sense I've always envied I would have loved to have spent more time with Terry, Karlene and family but distance kept us apart Rest in peace special man Our condolences to you Karlene and Family Mike O'Donnell and Family Wanganui

Thanks everyone for your lovely messages below. We had Dad at home with us all weekend after he passed. He was wrapped in his favourite lava lava, with a few of his special things, had a smile on his face and was surrounded by love. Just before he was to leave the house us three kids went to collect some sand for him from his favourite local beach and ended up in the water with four dolphins, we took this as a sign from Dad. At Dads private family service we played several songs too that Dad had requested. Smile by Trini Lopez. Marvin Gaye Whats going on. Cesaria Evora and Bonnie Raitt crepuscala solidao. And I’ll see you in my dreams Joe Brown. Later that night while having a drink to Dad and watching the sun set at the end of the peninsula a massive stunning double rainbow suddenly appeared, another sign from Dad. The following is a poem I read for Dad at his service. As the ocean waves at me, And the sand greets the sea, The fish swim free, And shells wash up by me. The sand squishes suddenly, Between my shoeless toes. Then the tide flows over them, And back down it goes. The salt is on my tongue, The seas song is sung, The sun is going down, And so my day at sea is done.

Very sad to hear of Terry’s passing, he was a very good friend, n known him for many years, I met him originally on Takapuna Beach, he was a regular swimmer!! Being Irish, I would like to send him the traditional Irish Blessing:-“May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face; the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.”

A wonderful father to one of my dearest friends. Terry was always so welcoming with a good sense of humour. The home Terry and Karlene created for us kids to teens to adults was always great to visit or stay Thank you. The furniture he built us 17 years ago is still going strong! We raise our glasses to you and send all your family much love ❤️

My dear mate Terry who I grew to love and respect, years of good times both at Telecom and personally. I was so glad to have been able to visit Terry and Karlene in February and spent some quality time with you both. Thinking of you Terry, always in my heart. Wayne Johnson Perth Western Australia

Such a lovely photo … with a smile that I remember well. A constant presence in my memories of growing up that I treasure. A steadfast calm and loving man. Aroha to Karlene, Nicole, Kirsten and Todd xx

Terry, your laughter your spontaneous giggle is with me you're such a special person and have made an imprint in all our lives of growing ip.having fun + rearing kids* qho gave taught us parents so much* the love+ passion you had for life your family + friends has not been lost on us - i will walk the beach + you'll be in my heart All my love to you Ksrl3ene Nicole Kerstin Todd'y I'll be thinking of you lots💞🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

A truly lovely guy who will be missed by many. Love to all the family, we are thinking of you. Those we love live on in our hearts for ever.

I was visiting Norm in the Gold Coast when he received the sad news from Karlene. Norm recalled how Terry and him had known each other since primary school and the great times they has shared over many years. I recalled that Terry loved to have a good discussion and especially loved to have a great laugh, tears and all. We were thankful we had both visited Terry and Karlene a few months ago. Our love and thoughts are with Karlene and family.

I was very sorry to learn from Graham Black about the passing of Terry. Just a pity we didn't have the chance to get together but he is very much in my thoughts and I wish to extend my sympathy to you Karlene and the family. I am the daughter of the late Win and Murray Terry and I live in Invercargill.

We were so sad to hear from our dear friend Gretta Currier that Terry had passed away. So many happy memories over those early years - lots of fun and laughter together. Our thoughts are with Karlene and family at this sad time. Love