20 October 1937 – 5 June 2023
20 October 1937 – 5 June 2023
Passed away peacefully in his 86th year. Loved son of David and Margarita. Much loved husband of Diane Adele Eades. Loved father and father-in-law of Andre ,Angela ,Rochelle and Stephen, and grandfather of Tahlia and Jean-Luc; Kaan ; Caleb and Ethan; and great grandfather of Leo and Sasha. Loved brother of David, Brian, Marjorie, Maureen, Shirley, Colleen, Ronald, Desmond, Lorraine, Terrance, Beverley and Derek.
A Requiem Mass to celebrate Trevor's life will be held at St Michaels Catholic Church, 6 Beatrice Road, Remuera on Saturday 10th June at 1.00pm followed by private cremation.
Funeral service held at St Michael's Catholic Church
World Environment Day 50th anniversary 5th June 2023
Bank of New South Wales (Westpac today) Photo early days with the Bank Joined 1956 Dunedin Then Wellington Te Kuiti Auckland Dunedin Wellington Nelson Christchurch Auckland 1984 until retirement
Peter Snell Word Mile Record 3 minutes 54.4 seconds 27 January 1962 Cooks Gardens Wanganui Dad and Mum drove up from Wellington with their friend Bruce Goldstone and met Dad brother David who at the time lived in Wanganui to watch Peter Snell break the world mile record on grass.
Christian Brothers first XI Carisbrook Cricket Club Hutt Districts Cricket Club
1958 Dunedin Rugby Club Seniors 1957 Otago Representative 3rd Grade Dunedin 3rd Grade Fulkton Cup 1956 Dunedin 4th Grade Christian Brothers first XV Hutt Marist 1959 to 1960
Gunner Arnold 122 Haabty Royal New Zealand Artillery Regiment. 23/1/57 to 19/3/57 Burnham Summer 1958 2 weeks Tekapo Summer 1959 2 weeks Papakura
Family (including Teddy)
North Shore City For long service to the community and the environment
Compulsory Military Training Medals
Eulogy (continued) Then to Auckland, Dunedin, Wellington (Rochelle), Nelson, Christchurch, and Auckland since 1984 Then grandchildren arrived, Tahlia, Jean-Luc, Kaan, Caleb and Ethan Then great grandchildren, Leo, and Sasha. Over time he started travelling in Europe (Italy was his favourite) North America and Australia (Australian Open Tennis visited many times). He was proud of his environmental community work on the North Shore. He enjoyed telling stories of his Compulsory Military Training. He was once kidnapped in the late 1960s, at the Bank in Auckland. Over the last few years, we have worked together on writing stories of his younger days. I would tell him about the Arnolds, coming from Eaglesham Scotland, that they were weavers, and show pictures and stories where they lived. We would discuss their journey to Australia in 1856 and then to Dunedin in 1863. I would tell him tales of Hugh Francis McAuley, his great grandfather, prospecting days in Hyde from 1863 to 1914. David Arnold, his grandfather, job as a saddler and his interests. The Harney family, arriving in 1869 from County Roscommon, Ireland. Dad wishes were for his ashes to be deposited from the Green Bridge, near to where the family camped when he was a boy. He was always calm, accepting, non-judging, caring and a very loyal man to all family. To his Mum, his Dad, his brothers and sisters, his wife Diane, who together were in their 62nd year of marriage. To his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. To me he was Saint Trevor and Dad.
Eulogy Part 1 Trevor John Arnold Also known as Dad, TJ, Grandad and Great Grandad. Dad was born in Dunedin on the 20th of October 1937 the 8th child of 13. His parents David McAuley Arnold and Margarita Harney were married in 1925 in Oamaru. “I cannot remember my parents having a row. Mum to me was a gentle person who always seemed calm in all circumstances”. “You could tell her anything and she would listen, and you felt better”. “Dad, was a man's man, well versed in all sports, loved his garden, he ruled with a firm line”. David Arnold grew up in Ophir and Waipiata in Central Otago. Margarita in Windsor and Oamaru North Otago. Dad first trip to Waipiata was when he was 5 years old by night train from Dunedin. “I can remember it was a clear night but on the cold side, no moon and the sky were full of stars". Walking to the camp, David his older brother, put Dad on his shoulders and carried him half the way. The family home was 77 Forfar Street, Clyde Hill, Dunedin. As a child I lived in Dunedin for a while and visited Forfar Street many times. Imagining Dad as a boy running around the house, sitting near the coal range and playing in the garden. Primary School was Saint Francis Xavier in Mornington up the road. In 1949 he went to St Edmunds. Here on the way home, he would pop into Nana Arnold house in Bradshaw Street, who always had baking treats. Nana always tried to encourage him to become a priest. He was an altar boy at his brother David wedding. From here it was onto Christian Brothers, playing rugby and cricket at school. After school he played rugby for the Dunedin Rugby Club and cricket. Upon leaving school he joined the Bank of New South Wales (Westpac today). Working for them his whole life and nearly 50 years. From the bottom to Branch Manager. The Bank took him from Dunedin to Wellington where he married Mum. On to Te Kuiti in the King Country where Angela and I were born.
The first photo Mum gave Dad when they were going out together. Very special photo to him.
Saint Michael's Funeral
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Time To Say Goodbye
Safely Home
Funeral service held at St Michael's Catholic Church

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